Monday, July 16, 2018
So, You Think You're Tolerant?
By Dave Rubin, Guest Columnist
Tolerance--a word we hear a lot these days--is “the ability to live with people whose opinions and behavior you don’t agree with.” That’s essentially how Oxford defines it, how Merriam-Webster defines it and how we, as a society, have always defined it.
You may favor the death penalty while your cousin is against it. Your dad might have voted for Trump, your mom for Clinton and your brother may not have voted at all.
Whatever differences we have, tolerating the opinions of another is a prerequisite to a functioning and free society.
America itself was built on a foundation of tolerance. The Declaration of Independence guarantees us life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. But there’s an implicit contract there: To have your life, your liberty and your pursuit of happiness, you must be tolerant of another individual’s life, liberty and their pursuit of happiness.
But this contract seems to be breaking down.
According to the mainstream media, only one side is living up to this ‘agreement:’ the left. The ‘right,’ “…is intolerant of everyone... except those darned white, heterosexual, Christian males.”
There’s only one problem. It’s just not true. Incredibly, the left isn’t even tolerant of the very people they say they’re tolerant of!
If you’re gay, black or an immigrant and not in lockstep with current leftist orthodoxy, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
If you believe we should judge people on the content of their character and not the color of their skin, the left calls you “racist.” If you believe that America is a nation of immigrants, but that our country should also protect its borders, the left calls you a “xenophobe.” If you believe that men and women are equal but fundamentally different, the left calls you “sexist.”
Here’s the thing: those who only tolerate people they agree with or like…aren’t actually tolerant.
So, who is tolerant?
Is it the organizers of the Women's March, who had to apologize for the “hurt and confusion” they caused when they invited a man—leftist icon Bernie Sanders—to speak at their convention? Is it the Antifa thugs, who caused UC Berkeley to spend $600,000 on security when mainstream conservative Ben Shapiro showed up to give a talk? Or is it democratic congresswoman Maxine Waters, who scolded Kanye West for “talking out of turn” when he dared suggest that blacks should think for themselves?
These aren’t isolated examples. I’m guessing that you have sometimes silenced yourself because you don’t want to suffer the wrath of the outraged mob.
So, once again: Who is tolerant?
It’s actually those “scary” right-wingers that the media and the universities demonize every day.
I speak from personal experience.
Maybe I’m a glutton for punishment here, but I still consider myself a liberal. And it’s my duty as a liberal to say what I think.
I would rather stand for what I believe and be hated than bow down and be loved.
The left, sadly, has become utterly intolerant of anyone with whom they disagree. Why? Because they know how one should live and what one must believe. Quite simply, they know what is ‘right’ and what is ‘best.’ Any deviation, any non-conformity is an affront to the liberal agenda.
The right, on the other hand, welcomes diversity of thought.
I can tell you that in the last few years of my political evolution, I’ve consistently found conservatives to be tolerant and open-minded.
The right, much more than the left, believes in the notion of “live and let live.” And that is the true definition of tolerance.
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